Four Days of Power: Becky’s Birth Story

Part of the 12 Days of Birth Stories series

In this woman’s story from the 12 Days of Birth Stories series, we sit down with Becky to explore her four-day birth journey — a powerful unfolding that weaves together mental preparation, physical endurance, deep trust, and spiritual insight.

Becky gave birth during the early days of the pandemic, navigating restrictions, shifting care dynamics, and a lot of uncertainty. Her story touches on the mental, emotional, and spiritual edges of birth — and invites us into the real, raw, layered experience of becoming a mother in strange and tender times.

What You’ll Hear in Becky’s Story

This conversation covers:

  • What it was like to be pregnant and give birth during COVID-19 lockdowns

  • The mental game of preparing for birth

  • The beauty of preparing together with your partner

  • The physical exhaustion that labour can bring

  • The tension between trusting your body and trusting your care providers

  • How fear can surface during birth and what impact it can have

  • The different energies brought in by midwives, traditional birth attendants, friends, and mothers

  • Seeing how everything unfolds for a reason, and how birth can become a deeply spiritual process

And so much more.

Becky speaks honestly, with so much heart — and her story is one that will land deeply if you’ve ever wrestled with fear, exhaustion, or the unknown in birth.

Join the Conversation

Let us know in the comments if any part of Becky’s story resonated with you. Have you had a similar experience, or wrestled with similar questions around trust, timing, or support? We’d love to hear.

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What’s Next

Stay tuned… we’ll continue with Chelsea’s story of a stuck fourth baby, and what it taught her about body wisdom, surrender, and the deep wildness of birth.

Nessa Hayes

Nessa is the founder of Radical Mother Wellness, where she integrates her extensive background as a Clinical Herbalist, Energy Healer, and Birth Keeper to support mothers on their journey to holistic wellness. With a deep-rooted belief in the power of natural healing and the wisdom of the body, Nessa combines the art of herbal remedies with energy healing techniques to empower women through all stages of motherhood. Through her work, she fosters a supportive community where women can reconnect with their intuition, reclaim their health, and find balance. Nessa’s approach is centered on nurturing the mind, body, and spirit, guiding mothers toward lasting transformation and wellness. When she’s not working with clients, Nessa enjoys spending time with her family, gardening, and deepening her connection to the natural world.

https://www.radicalmotherwellness.com
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